I agree 100 percent that it should not be 9 months in, unless the woman will for sure lose her life due to medical reasons if she gives birth. I'm sure that would be known before 9 months but I have no clue.I am with you but I know I can not hold others to my same values and beliefs. So with that they can not hold me to theirs. In that though everybody has to work together for something that can be agreed upon as a whole. So if that is six weeks or eight? I don't know. But I know it shouldn't nine months or the five minutes after birth. I really can not see how anybody could even think of that let alone agree to it.
Just think about if your wife was forced to keep a child that will kill her at birth. Who makes that decision? Our government? What if the baby has a potential of dying as well as the mother? Should a father lose both the wife and child?